tips to get your ex back

When people start a relationship, there is work involved in building up and nurturing that relationship. Unfortunately for some, breakups do happen and they can cause a lot of emotional pain. Below are 5 tips to get your ex back by showing your ex how important you are and were to him or her.
1 -Pull yourself together, stop displaying self-pity and exhibiting desperate behavior. Behave in a self-confident way, showing your ex you are just doing fine without them. When your ex perceives you as moving on with your life, he or she might start reflecting on what went wrong and how to get you back.
2 -Stop writing, calling or e-mailing your ex. This is one of the first and most important steps to get your ex back. By minimizing the communication with your ex, you give him or her the time to think about what really happened and hopefully realize how valuable your relationship was.
3 -In case you are still living under the same roof, try listening for a change and try to put yourself in your ex’s shoes. You might get a better grip on the situation and likewise, your ex might be pleasantly surprised in discovering this new side of you.
4 -Stop festering and go out. Call your friends or family and do something together. Anything to stop you from brooding about your breakup. This will not only be therapeutic for you, but it will show your ex that you are doing fine without them and might convince them that the relationship deserves a second chance.
5 -Remember how you fell in love in the first place and try to behave like you were doing then. Try to let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. It might just be the easiest way to get your ex back.